Archive for the 'Thoughts on ADD' Category

Lego Your Ego

Sunday, November 25th, 2007

Yes, your ego………not your Eggo. I still remember the Eggo Waffles commercial from when I was a kid and the household advertising phrase most families became familiar with, “lego-my-Eggo”.

One thing I have learned to do and was reminded of recently, was to lego-my-ego, or in simple terms, let go of my ego. Like many […]

ADD Communication Behaviors

Thursday, November 22nd, 2007

These are some common ADD/ADHD communication behaviors. I came across this list at http://www.addresources.org and really liked it.
Whether you are impacted by ADD or someone you communicate with is…………there are some pretty good points noted here that you just might be able to relate to.
• Not talking—often from preoccupation with internal thoughts, feelings, worries. we […]

A Good Fight - ADD In Adult Relationships

Tuesday, November 6th, 2007

So, is ADD to be blamed for the downfall and difficulties in relationships with an ADD’r and Non-ADD’r? On occasion yes, however most of the time it’s not the ADD that causes the problem, instead it is how the couple chooses to deal or not deal with the diagnosis of ADD.
I can reflect […]

Put Yourself In Their Shoes

Wednesday, October 24th, 2007

Maybe it’s her shoes, or his shoes. ADD, sympathy and empathy………sounds like a good link, or an example of connecting the dots. It’s a common known fact that many ADD’ers will experience a challenge when trying to be empathetic or sympathetic. The good news, this challenge can be overcome and I’m living proof of that!! […]

Meds Are Not Enough

Saturday, October 13th, 2007

The phrase “pills don’t teach skills” is one of the most accurate and impacting statements I’ve heard during my period of dealing with ADD. Not a bad name for a Blog either!! It took a while for me to understand and truly grasp the impact of this statement. I read it, I heard it from […]

Communication Breakdown

Tuesday, October 2nd, 2007

If you are old enough to remember or you are a music fan, “Communication Breakdown” is a song by English rock band Led Zeppelin, from their 1969 debut album Led Zeppelin. It was one of the first songs that Jimmy Page and Robert Plant worked on together.
I think we’ve all had some communication breakdowns at […]

Laugh At Yourself

Friday, September 28th, 2007

It’s healthy to be able to laugh at yourself sometimes. Charles Schulz the creator of the Charlie Brown/Peanuts comic strip once said “If I were given the opportunity to present a gift to the next generation, it would be the ability for each individual to learn to laugh at himself.” So, lets start now…here is […]

Proactive Parenting With ADD

Tuesday, September 25th, 2007

Are you a parent who has ADD? Do you know a parent who has ADD? Welcome to the club!! Unfortunately, there are no loyalty points in this club.
Raising children at the best of times is a lot of work and presents a lifetime of challenges for any parent. Challenges can be magnified when a parent […]

Update - Coming Out Of The Closet

Wednesday, September 19th, 2007

As a continuation to my post on August 8th 2007, just wanted to offer some additional feedback. I’ve received a couple great comments on the post and it doesn’t stop there. I’ve taken a more open approach to discussing ADD and the comments & support have been outstanding from everyone I’ve spoken with.
This offers further […]

Listen With Your Eyes

Monday, September 17th, 2007

A very common trait of people impacted with ADD, is the challenge of listening. Heck, who’s kidding who, it’s a common trait with most people!! Maintaining interest is hard when the ability to focus or concentrate is not what it should be for a person.
I recall being younger and sitting in school, or participating in […]